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JUDGING

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN JUDGED BY SOMEONE ?I THINK MOST OF HAS BEEN JUDGED BY  PEOPLE AND NEAR AND DEAR ONES ALSO.
HELLO! HERE I AM WITH MY ANOTHER BLOG ON THE TOPIC JUDGING.AS I SAID MOST  OF US HAVE BEEN JUDGED BY MANY  PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES. EVERYONE LOVES GOSSIPING ABOUT OTHERS , TALK SHITTY THINGS ABOUT THEM. FOR SOME PEOPLE ITS  BECOME THIER HABITAT TO GOSSIP, TO JUDGE OTHERS.THEY FEEL THEY HAVEN'T DONE THIER MOST IMPORTANT JOB TO DO.
THEY DO NOT REALIZE WHAT THEY ARE SPEAKING, BUT STILL ABOUT OTHERS BECAUSE THEY FIND IT FUN.BUT THE ARE NOT REALIZING HOW MUCH NEGATIVE THEY ARE THINKING.CAN YOU TELL ME WHAT DOES JUGDING PEOPLE GIVE US?DOES IT GIVES US INTERNAL HAPPINESS,POSITIVITY?THE ANSWER IS NO!. IT DOESN'T GIVE AS ANYTHING.  WE FIND IT JUDGE SOMEONE FOR SOMETIME.  WE DON'T REALIZE WE ARE WASTING OUR TIME JUDGING PEOPLE, WE TAKE IN NEGATIVITY WHICH WILL CAUSE HARM TO US.  WE SHOULDN'T JUDGE PEOPLE THEM BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW THIER STORY, YOU DONT KNOW THEM.  YOUR JUDGEMENT DOESN'T DEFINE THEM IT DEFINES YOU.



WHEN YOU ARE JUDGED IT SHOWS HOW MUCH THEY ARE INTERESTED IN YOU AND THEY FIND YOU BETTER THAN THEMSELVES. WHEN PEOPLE JUDGE YOU TAKE IT POSITIVELY LIKE I DIDN'T KNOW YOU YOU ARE AN EXPERT ON MY LIFE AND HOW I LIVE IT SO PLEASE CONTINUE TO TAKE NOTES.  YOU CAN'T STOP THEM FROM JUDGING YOU , SO FOCUS ALL YOUR ENERGY ON DETACHING.




FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT TO DO PEOPLE ARE GONNA JUDGE YOU DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOU NEGAVTIVELY TAKE IT  POSITIVELY AND WORK.  THEY JUDGING YOU ABOUT SOME THING YOU ALREADY FEEL INSECURE ABOUT THEN ITS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE.  CARL GUTSAV JUNG"THINKING IS DIFFICULT THAT'S WHY PEOPLE JUDGE.''  PEOPLE DON'T THINK THEY JUDGE BECAUSE IT IS EASY TO JUDGE THAN TO THINKBE CREATIVE, THINK DIFFERENTLY,BE CURIOUS AND TAKE JUDGEMENTS FROM OTHERS IN A POSTIVTIVELY COMPETITIVE MANNER.




 WE SHOULD JUDGE OURSELVES WHERE WE LACK BEHIND, WHERE WE CAN IMPROVE , HOW TO IMPROVE.  WE SHOULD THINK OF OURSELVES FIRST THEN OF OTHERS.




I WOULD LIKE TO CONCLUDE BY SAYING NEVER JUDGE ANYBODY BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW ABOUT THEM,THIER STORY, THIER LIFE. BE INTERESTED ONLY IN YOUR LIFE SO YOU CAN BECOME WHAT YOU THINK TO  . DON'T LET OTHER THINKING, GOSSIP, JUDGEMENT AFFECT YOU IT WILL ONLY CAUSE YOU HARM. 

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